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Helping Your Spouse Realize Their Potential

Workaholic man

Hi there! First off, happy October!! Texas weather has started taking a turn for the best, with cooler mornings and leaves turning shades. Helloooo autumn!

So today and in recent weeks, I’ve been mulling over this concept of how we can help our spouses realize their potential. Do we realize that marriage is more than about being happy and helping each other “get through life”? (Wow, what a small vision for our marriages!)

As your spouse’s closest friend, confidante, and live-in partner, you have an up close & personal view of their life. You see what they may hide from others. You know their strengths & weaknesses all too well — and you’re privy to their heart’s desires.

As a wife, I have unique insight into my wonderful husband’s gifts and talents. I believe God designed it this way — that he & I could be powerful seers into each other’s lives & call out the gifts we notice on display there. We must pay attention to the seeds of greatness we notice starting to form tiny buds in our husband or wife’s life. And what greater way to encourage and build each other up than to SHARE what we see WITH our spouses?!

In many ways, when our spouse realizes their potential, so can we. It’s like climbing a mountain together. You’ve got each other’s backs, sharing resources, help, and encouragement all the way up. But you also wait patiently for the other when they need time to catch their breath, and you’re there to help should they stumble or get injured. And you’re most certainly there with them when they reach the top!

Not sure how to “call out your spouse’s potential” and help them realize their dreams? Here are some practical ideas. I hope you’ll get started on this TODAY :)

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Becoming Whole: An Interview on Healing from Abuse

Michael Cusick Paul Young

Sexual healing minister Michael Cusick interviews Paul Young, THE SHACK author & sexual abuse survivor.

Hey friends. Sorry for the heavy messages lately, but in light of recent world events, I know many of us have questions about where God’s at & why He’s allowing such atrocities to happen. I think it’s important to address such topics in this space, so here goes.

Today I wanna share with you one of the most profound messages I’ve heard to date on deep personal & spiritual healing from abuse. Please do yourself a favor & give it a listen all the way through. I was so not expecting this level of depth in such a relatively short discussion.

This interview is with William Paul Young, author of the wildly-popular book The Shack (which honestly I have yet to read). It’s a book some Christians are wary of because, apparently, it plunges deep into the whole “dark night of the soul” bit, human suffering, and God’s place in it — asking questions many of us believers don’t dare to.

We’ve been taught that we shouldn’t question God… that we should have “reckless faith” even in the face of the most heinous evils that may happen to us (or around us). We’ve been taught that unwavering trust is where it’s AT — and Jesus absolutely says faith is vital to our well-being.

But maybe what we don’t understand is that faith isn’t the absence of questions. It’s the unwavering trust that in the midst of our deepest ones, we still believe in God’s character and that He’s planning good for us, even when all hell breaks loose in our lives. The deepest & most genuine faith is forged when we question every single biblical attribute about God but still keep holding His hand.

Let me know what you think.

“Becoming Whole” – Michael Cusick Interviews Paul Young, Author of The Shack

Credit: Unsplash, Alyssa Smith

Calling Evil Good

Credit: Unsplash, Alyssa Smith

Credit: Unsplash, Alyssa Smith

How long will we chase what destroys us, America? 

Have we forgotten Who made our nation great?

Centuries before it was hijacked for political agendas, the rainbow was given to us as a divine promise (and that it remains). Rainbows — and marriages — will always be God’s turf, and no attempt to rewrite their meanings is relevant because He is their creator, not man [and the Creator always has ultimate authority]. No government dictates what is morally right in God’s eyes.

Today’s Supreme Court ruling shows blatant disrespect for the God who loves us and wants to free us from our wicked behavior. Here is a warning to those declaring today a “national victory”:


“Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil;
Who put darkness for light, and light for darkness;
Who put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!

Woe to those who are wise in their own eyes,
And prudent in their own sight!
Woe to men… who justify the wicked for a bribe,
And take away justice from the righteous man!

Therefore, as the fire devours the stubble,
And the flame consumes the chaff,
So their root will be as rottenness,
And their blossom will ascend like dust;
Because they have rejected the law of the Lord of hosts,
And despised the word of the Holy One of Israel.
Therefore the anger of the Lord is aroused against His people;
He has stretched out His hand against them
And stricken them,
And the hills trembled.
Their carcasses were as refuse in the midst of the streets.

For all this His anger is not turned away,
But His hand is stretched out still.”

I ask again: How long will we chase what destroys us, America?